Jonathan's first penis experience in a car. All illustrations by Michael Dockery. For most people, their first experience touching someone else's junk is awkward, surprising, and pretty hard to forget.
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The hand job is so high school. It went like this: You rubbed over his jeans for a while ouch! If you were brave, you opened it up for better access. And you jerked. Back and forth, back and forth. No lube, not even spit. And eventually, because he was a year-old boy, he came. You felt accomplished, he felt satisfied, and once you learned how to blow him , you never jerked him off again. But the hand job gets a bad rap. It's all grown-up and waiting in your sexual repertoire , all the hotter because it reminds him of those basement days in high school and his first sexual experiences.
First things first, lubricate those hands of yours! No guy wants your bone-dry palms moving up and down his dick. It causes friction and it hurts. You can use your own saliva, but it dries up quickly. Second thing, get comfortable. Alternative hand job positions include: him standing in front of you while you sit on the bed, you lying on your back while he straddles your stomach, and you nestling between his legs, facing him. Turn your hand upside down and grip his penis you should be seeing the back of your hand with your thumb at the bottom.