I'd rather marry a doctor and let him have a mistress on the side if that means not having to worry about money. I am running errands related to school or the volunteer work I do or just plain running this house I would love to meet up at the gym ladies. Just let things keep going. With that being said, I have long considered myself just a tad outside super TBM since we watched Game of Thrones, drank energy drinks, and occasionally stayed in my running clothes sans garments to do yard work. Mark an envelope to be opened at different times throughout the day. Did things right and got married. I wish you all well on your recovery from this particularly vile church. Lots of really thorough replies. I'm keeping myself occupied with my kid, work but I wonder if my career will ever take precedence.
When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow. It kills me that we are now diminished to a mere statistic. There's a ton of crazy in what we were taught all our lives. I had told him that if he hadn't changed jobs, that I wouldn't have left him but that our relationship would probably become irreparable. No hard feelings, is not his fault, I said yes when he proposed based on the life wee had at that time, my fault for not doing some re search and find out how is really when you are a register or in the training programme. Communication is at an all time low and stress is at an all time high. Hopefully they have some say in it, but I'm speaking about other churchgoers' expectations here, and probably your wife's. He doesn't realize that when he spends so much time at the hospital they take this as a sign that he has no home life. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. MinsPackage speaks the truth.
You need to do something interesting and keep her faith up. And I'll disagree with the other person who responded to your comment. It is positively shocking. Thanks so much for the links. For now, again, don't expect a decade long relationship.
We have been married a mere 3. If he is the right person for me, then I would wait and deal with the busy schedule in the meantime. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. To answer your question: Even when he does, everything is on his terms.